WHAT MATTERS TO ME THIS VALENTINE’S DAY WITH THE ONE I LOVE

WHAT MATTERS TO ME THIS VALENTINE’S DAY WITH THE ONE I LOVE



Many people are talking about Valentine’s Day. I wanted to share some things that are important to me. They matter not only on a day like this but every day with the one I love. Let’s take a moment together to discuss, “What matters to me this Valentine’s Day with the one I love.”

You may be thinking it is important to make sure you acknowledge the one you love on Valentine’s Day. Yes, I would agree. But, I believe it’s important to let the one you love know how you feel every day. I believe it’s necessary to keep a healthy relationship.

I think it is so important to not make it about things but rather your time… your moments cherished together. Consider all the precious things you really love and appreciate about one another. When you do so, you will look back over your experiences together and treasure them more over what was given.

I understand some like to get gifts and I am not saying this is a bad thing. Rather, I am saying to consider the entirety of it all over just running out and getting chocolates and flowers. Believe me, I am one who loves to get both. Yet, we think about the moments we share every day. When we are with the ones we love, we feel more inclined to cherish them.

Let’s be honest here, it takes work to keep a loving healthy relationship. It does not just happen. You both must make sure that you pay attention to the things each loves and dislikes. You should also consider their needs. For example, how can chocolate help with the need to have a really serious discussion? The point is there is a time and place for everything.

So what matters to me in my relationship with the one I love? Believe me I can include so many things. But for this blog, I would like to include my top three most important. First and most importantly is maintaining respect with each other. Secondly, open and honest communication in every circumstance. Lastly, paying attention to each other’s needs. My husband and I have reached a mutual understanding. We know that we can’t meet each other’s needs at all times. This is because we both obviously are not perfect. Paying attention to each other’s needs helps us recognize when we might need some space. It allows us to think on what we are going through. It also gives us a better understanding. We learn not to assume why the other may be acting or talking a certain way.

In every relationship, we must decide not to put any expectation on the other. When we do this, we are unfortunately at a place where we most likely will fail each other. So what will we do this Valentine’s Day? My love and I will make sure we are both in agreement with our likes and desires. We will also make certain we do not put any unnecessary pressure on what each of us must do. We should focus on what is acceptable.

For those of you in a relationship, let me know what you are doing this Valentine’s Day. Have you both discussed it? Do you prefer to be surprised? Do you take moments to appreciate one another everyday like me and not only for this special V Day? This Valentine’s Day, I will cherish the moments together with my love. I sincerely appreciate that you take moments with me and share your stories.

Related posts: “Maintaining Communication with Your Spouse” “Celebrate the Ones You Love

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