Recently, with the holidays coming up, I was asked, “What would you like?” This question really hit me in a different way when asked. I paused, began to consider all that I already have, and started to think, what would I really like? Let’s take a quick moment to discuss, “How would you respond?”
As I thought more about this question, I sincerely felt like crying. You may ask, “why?” First, it came from someone very dear to me, and second, it is a very hard question. It also felt as though, God was asking, ‘how would you respond?’ He is so faithful to supply ALL my needs and has gone above and beyond to give me the desires of my heart very often even if I had to wait for them.
The more I think of this question, it also touched me because it was expressed as, “I do not want to just give you just anything. I want to give you something that you would really value and appreciate.” I have taken time with this and still need to get back to this person. More than material things that are here today and gone tomorrow, I sincerely want more of God in my life and opportunities to do more for Him. I will be honest with this person about how my heart is full, and I will also share some things that they can consider. I can honestly say that because I was asked like this, I am already very blessed and would greatly appreciate whatever this person will choose to get for me. I love and appreciate cheerful givers who do not look for anything in return. That to me is a sincere heart of giving.
Perhaps, like me, you have been asked this question too. For me, Christmas is not about what someone can give me, rather is about celebrating the true meaning. I am someone who sincerely loves to give to others and genuinely see them appreciate it. However, I must continue to be good at receiving. I have learned the importance of giving without wanting anything in return.
I would love to hear your stories. Share how you would answer this question. Maybe at one time, you would have answered one way and now maybe you would answer differently. Remember sharing your experiences with others brings encouragement to their hearts too. Thank you for taking moments with me. I am wishing you all a wonderful Christmas Season.
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I’m with you on the same boat. I like to give but never expect anything. Although I don’t mind getting something, but Christmas and holiday is about the time we spend and the memories we create. This is actually great question but no one asked me yet.
Definitely agreed holidays are most cherished in making memories with your loved ones. Thank you for taking a moment to read and share your comments Frank.
When someone from the family asks me what I want as a gift I normally ask for a board game 🙂 As that is not something I would buy myself as sometimes they are unreasonably expensive and are not a necessity, but it is something that is so nice to have when we have guests over. And I guess as a starting out household, we always have something on the wish list that we did not get yet. But I totally agree with you that Jesus has given us everything to be satisfied and thankful. However, when someone is intending on giving something anyway, I would rather tell them what would be nice than receiving something that I don’t know what to do with! 🙂
Such fun choices. I honestly enjoy board games too. I love that you each have a wish list. I tell loved ones what is the one thing you would love to have this Christmas, most of the time they will answer you really do not have to get me anything. So I try to pay attention to the things the would appreciate and sincerely enjoy having. There is something about giving to someone who genuinely is grateful for your thoughtfulness. Thank you so much for reading and leaving your comments. Enjoy your holidays.
Thanks for the thoughts. It’s so good to stop and remember all that God has already given us.
Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts Abi. These moments of just pausing and being grateful for what we already have, really impact us in so many wonderful ways.
Love this and I am right there with you! I think for me time is so valuable so even if the gift ends up being something we can enjoy together that is an added bonus. Maybe a cup of coffee and time catching up or something in that family of gifts. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
So true Lindsey, time with the ones you love doing the things you both would enjoy and appreciate are the best gifts for sure. Thank you so much for taking moments with me and sharing your thoughts.
Jesus is the reason for the season!
Yes, Amen Vanessa. Thank you for taking a moment with me and sharing your comments.
Our family makes a wish list on Amazon, and then we draw names via Elfster.
That is such a great idea Julie. Then everyone is getting something they would want, need and appreciate. Love this idea. Thank you for taking moments with me and sharing your thoughts.
I fielded this exact question this week from family. I love giving more than receiving, but above all else – I enjoy celebrating the season with family and focusing on fun traditions built over many years.
So true, I too enjoy celebrating this season with the ones I love. For me, giving brings so much joy to my heart. Thank you so much for reading and sharing your comments.